Anonoymous has asked if I had sought help for my sex addiction.
Will get to that in a moment. First, how much sex is best? Well I can only speak for masturbation. I can go 2 or so hours at a time, several times a day. Most often there isn't enough time to squeeze in as much masturbation as I would like.
I feel our future is to be more dominated by sexual pleasure. Sex is relatively carbon neutral compare with most modern entertainment activities. It requires few material resources. It is good exercise. Why not 8 hours a day?
Beyond about 10, it gets to be a drag.
But mostly in my life I have gotten by with an hour or so of masturbation daily, though often many more on weekends.
I feel that this has kept me relatively young for my age. It is a fine, and important source of male exercise, and males should get several ejaculations per week regardless of what their females want. So masterbation makes up the gap.
In order to be considered an addiction by medical professionals,* something is shown to be seriously harmful to health or other essential activities like work or sleeping. I would say masturbation has helped keeped my mind clear. It is excercise and largely beneficial to health.* I am have a successful career, a home, and lady friends, so it does not appear to be interfereing with essential activities. I have a full time job and host a party every month, and have as many dates with my most special lady friend as often as she is available. I have been keeping my front lawn mowed and beautiful (first time in my life) these days.
I do wish my relationships with women resulted in more sex. But they don't seem to have much time or interest in that.
So who is to keep me satisfied then? And how often should I do it? Well I'd say as I want and I can, without hurting anything else. (So blank off, you puritans, who worry someone may be having too much pleasure somewhere.) This blog is all about convincing people that lots of hours of intimacy is a very good thing. Maybe more of that will trickle back to me one day.
I have found the cure for my cracking circumsized glans and hours of masturbation. Vaseline. One coat of vaseline may work for 6 hours if not wiped off. I suspect this is not good for heterosexual intercourse.
But I now find it very interesting that Sharon Tate, sexiest woman ever, and a quickly rising star, used vaseline as her lipstick. It does make one think about oral sex.
Anyway, I see the future as less mechanized transport, less stuff generally, and just us people. And the best thing we can do much of the time, would be intimacy, minimally, comfort, and sex. And that may be what we will be spending most of our time doing. And it would be good, in many ways better than now, though we might miss some aspect of the old world of missing distances, and probably not so much the endless stuff, but perhaps some of it.
WRT my doctor, she sees sex addiction mainly as the situation where a person tends to get VD or other ailments from too much sex with other people...another matter altogether. They just can't stop picking up new partners. (I haven't had a new partner in years.)
I tend to think if I had a vast array of partners, I'd rather it be a harem. Or if not that, a regulated brothel. And not random people I meet on the subway.
But there is something to be said for that subway thing too. I've had interesting conversations on subways, though none led to sex. I wouldn't mind living in a world where, they just could, even if you walked up to the sexiest woman. It does sound cool in a way. Now if I were very hot sex object, I could just pick 'em up, I suppose, perhaps, maybe, quickly enough.
That is not at all like the world I have lived in. Hard enough to start a conversation. Mostly impossible, actually. And then, to get anything out of that. And then, and so on.
In my experience, the road to sex (with another person) is 10,000 steps, a tall mountain climb, during which at any time you can frequently slide backwards so as to have to start over. No easy matter. Not even possible except with very very few even then.
I think a more sex filled cuture would be safe if people were rational and had the right medical support.
I think we need a more sex filled culture, again the point of this blog.
Will get to that in a moment. First, how much sex is best? Well I can only speak for masturbation. I can go 2 or so hours at a time, several times a day. Most often there isn't enough time to squeeze in as much masturbation as I would like.
I feel our future is to be more dominated by sexual pleasure. Sex is relatively carbon neutral compare with most modern entertainment activities. It requires few material resources. It is good exercise. Why not 8 hours a day?
Beyond about 10, it gets to be a drag.
But mostly in my life I have gotten by with an hour or so of masturbation daily, though often many more on weekends.
I feel that this has kept me relatively young for my age. It is a fine, and important source of male exercise, and males should get several ejaculations per week regardless of what their females want. So masterbation makes up the gap.
In order to be considered an addiction by medical professionals,* something is shown to be seriously harmful to health or other essential activities like work or sleeping. I would say masturbation has helped keeped my mind clear. It is excercise and largely beneficial to health.* I am have a successful career, a home, and lady friends, so it does not appear to be interfereing with essential activities. I have a full time job and host a party every month, and have as many dates with my most special lady friend as often as she is available. I have been keeping my front lawn mowed and beautiful (first time in my life) these days.
I do wish my relationships with women resulted in more sex. But they don't seem to have much time or interest in that.
So who is to keep me satisfied then? And how often should I do it? Well I'd say as I want and I can, without hurting anything else. (So blank off, you puritans, who worry someone may be having too much pleasure somewhere.) This blog is all about convincing people that lots of hours of intimacy is a very good thing. Maybe more of that will trickle back to me one day.
I have found the cure for my cracking circumsized glans and hours of masturbation. Vaseline. One coat of vaseline may work for 6 hours if not wiped off. I suspect this is not good for heterosexual intercourse.
But I now find it very interesting that Sharon Tate, sexiest woman ever, and a quickly rising star, used vaseline as her lipstick. It does make one think about oral sex.
Anyway, I see the future as less mechanized transport, less stuff generally, and just us people. And the best thing we can do much of the time, would be intimacy, minimally, comfort, and sex. And that may be what we will be spending most of our time doing. And it would be good, in many ways better than now, though we might miss some aspect of the old world of missing distances, and probably not so much the endless stuff, but perhaps some of it.
WRT my doctor, she sees sex addiction mainly as the situation where a person tends to get VD or other ailments from too much sex with other people...another matter altogether. They just can't stop picking up new partners. (I haven't had a new partner in years.)
I tend to think if I had a vast array of partners, I'd rather it be a harem. Or if not that, a regulated brothel. And not random people I meet on the subway.
But there is something to be said for that subway thing too. I've had interesting conversations on subways, though none led to sex. I wouldn't mind living in a world where, they just could, even if you walked up to the sexiest woman. It does sound cool in a way. Now if I were very hot sex object, I could just pick 'em up, I suppose, perhaps, maybe, quickly enough.
That is not at all like the world I have lived in. Hard enough to start a conversation. Mostly impossible, actually. And then, to get anything out of that. And then, and so on.
In my experience, the road to sex (with another person) is 10,000 steps, a tall mountain climb, during which at any time you can frequently slide backwards so as to have to start over. No easy matter. Not even possible except with very very few even then.
I think a more sex filled cuture would be safe if people were rational and had the right medical support.
I think we need a more sex filled culture, again the point of this blog.
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